A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER SHARED A TRUE LIFE STORY:

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it’s good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.

We where best of friends.

I waited until he completed college and started work.

My family and his family then met.

We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn’t control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce.

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained.

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.

After two days, I received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.

He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me.

I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in he.ll.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.

Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted!

My family members are gossiping about me.

I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.

I know I wasted my marriage.

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don’t be cheated, don’t entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.

Even my young sisters are much more respected than me.

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are always teasing and bad mouthing me.

Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.

There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

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SOMETIMES IT’S NOT THE MAN’S FAULT AT ALL, IT’S YOUR PRIDE, AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU, SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE.

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-He reacted by using super glue on his wife.

-His wife was later rushed to the hospital.

Read the story below:

A 36-year-old man identified as Denis Mumo reportedly sealed his wife’s private part with super glue. Following reports of his wife seeing other men and extra-marital affairs.

According to local reports, Denis who was planning a business trip to Rwanda and regular traveller shocked villagers after sealing wife’s private part.

The Police have arrested the 36-year-old man after his wife was rushed off to the emergency room where she suffered medical complications and excruciating pain.

In a confessional statement, Mumo disclosed that he was guilty of gluing her gen!tals but only because he believed she had adulterous ideas after he found out she had plans with 4 men after reading the messages on her phone.

Mumo also revealed nvde photos her wife had sent to the man with the caption “Next week will be more fire”.

According to police, Mr. Mumo will face charges of domestic violence with assault and damaging her reproductive organs and risking to make her infertile.

Reacting to the incident, the lawyer of the husband declared that the suffering was in part justified and the woman should be administered 100 lashes to prevent further “misunderstandings” between her and her husband.

The evidence and nvde photos will be presented in the court, the lawyer stated.

The husband will appear in Kitui court on Monday to face charges.

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