4. Attend each other’s family and friends ceremony together.
If there’s any ceremony in your partner’s family, church or workplace like wedding, birthday anniversary and child dedication, it’s good you to attend such event.
5. Coauthor Books .
You can actually write books together during your courtship and bless people with the books.
This will help to synchronize your mental ability together.
It helps to make you stay together and bond mentally.
6. Organize Live events.
It’s not bad if you organize live event for youths or aged people in your local church and he or she is invited to participate in the event.
You can both visit secondary or primary school and minister to the youth there by sharing tracts, books, Bible, pen and text books.
7. Give him or her undivided attention.
Except when you are doing spiritual activities, you should never allow anything disrupt your attention for your lover.
Attention talks about doing away with any side distraction like movie, side talks during phone calls and chatting.
It means not pressing your phone when you are discussing.
It means giving his or her call priority.
It means not giving them reasons to panic or complain about not picking calls.
8. Run Business together.
I have a friend who she and the finance are running a business venture together.
They have built brand name and their business is doing great today.
9. Study the Bible, fast, Pray and Sing worship songs together.
Studying the Bible will help you to build your spiritual life together.
You should have a dedicated day during the week for fasting and prayers.
Singing praises and worship together will make the host of heaven to be delighted in you two.
Pray for your wedding, marriage, baby delivery, pregnancy, and children.
10. Plan together.
Plan your future together.
Plan your career.
Plan your academics and further studies.
12. Engage in Photoshoot.
Taking photoshoot help to keep the memories of your courtship days when you are married.
I have seen the pictures of the courtship days of Pastor E. A Adeboye, Bishop David Oyedepo, Evang Mike Bamiloye, Pastor Paul Enenche and many more.
13. Maximize Social media for effective and efficient communication.
We are in the Era where whatsapp audio and video call is affordable.
This will really help distance lovers to cut cost.
Get a good phone and affordable data subscription to maintain good communication through phone or WhatsApp call.
Relationship is expensive.
If you don’t have money at all, i would say you are not ripe for a relationship because the love will be one sided and your partner may feel bad that.
14. Celebrate each other’s birthday.
Find a special way to celebrate each other’s birthdays.
You could make a portrait of him or her.
You could buy him or her favorite gift.
You could tell your parents, family, colleagues or friends to call him or her just to celebrate their birthday.
You could get a gift and special birthday card solely for your partner.
I remembered the story of a Spiri Koko Brother who forgot the her fiancee birthday, the sister who has never gotten angry in their courtship was so vexed for the first time.
The rest was a story.
Dear Lovers, Don’t let that be your case.
There is no greater wickedness than this, for you to forget your lovers birthday.
15. Speak each other’s Love Language.
Except your love language is physical touch which is not encouraged in relationship because it could lead to romance then premarital sex which would damage your sexual purity testimony, but other love language should be expressed in a holy way.
Discover his or her love language and speak it.
Is it quality time, word of affirmation, gifts or act of service? The book Love language by Garry Chapman will explain better to you.
Proverbs 14:1(Modified)
Every wise woman or man builds their courtship relationship, but a foolish one tears it
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