EPISODE 30
“So you are telling me the two of you have not done anything?
Guy wey fine like this? (Such a handsome guy)
Someone from America for that matter…the headquarters of freakiness
And you are sure everything is fine with him?”
Those were Deola’s words, my first weekend in the house. She had been pestering me for details about my relationship with Folahan. She wanted to know more than I was sharing
“I’m just looking out for you girlfriend
You know I always keep it real
I have seen things happen…I have seen it play out many times.
A friend of mine that was also doing this your Born Again thing in Camp; we later realized the so-called brother was sleeping with another willing sister in their fellowship. The other girl got pregnant and refused to abort it that was how the secret came out.
In the world we live in now, I doubt if anyone can be in a relationship without sex
People have ways around these things…
It’s been almost a year that you guys have been dating and nothing happened? You are both in the same City…distance is not an issue.
Abeg, he is either getting it somewhere else or can’t ‘get’ it’ at all?”
“Come on Deola
We are children of God…we are working on having a honorable marriage by keeping the bed undefiled
Folahan actually stated his stance on pre-marital sex before I could even say anything…which made it way easier for me.
And FYI, my Folahan is 100% man
I’ve slept at his place before and I’ve seen him early in the morning
As a matter of fact, that’s one of the reasons I am not living with him
So, the ‘doing’ is not the problem…we are simply being Christians.
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