THE CHAT ROOM SEASON 2 : PART 1 – THE END

THE CHAT ROOM SEASON 2 : PART 1 – THE END

PART TWO

By Temi Akintade

“mummy, you are supposed to be angry with me. Yell at me or just do something!” Hadassah’s voice trembled. She was on the verge of tears.

“What made you want to have sex with Titus?” I asked. Pained expression written across my face.

She sighed and stuttered. “I-it is the devil.”

I glared at her and was about to pounce on her when I remembered the nudging of the Holy Spirit to tread carefully with her.

I swallowed and held her hand. “Look into my eyes Hadassah. Tell me everything I need to know. I thought we were friends. Look forget for a minute that I’m your mother and speak to me.”

She nodded. “It was Kate one of my best friends in school. She told me that it was time for me to have a boyfriend.

And so when Titus began to ask me out each time I go to his mother’s house for my sewing classes, I told Kate about it and she told me to accept it.”

“So does Kate the pastor’s daughter have a boyfriend too?” I asked calmly with a variety of thoughts racing through my mind.

“Yes. The Choir director’s son in the church is her boyfriend. And she told me that they only kss. That God is not against having boyfriends and kssing.” Hadassah said.

“Okay, so did you and Titus kiss?”

She avoided my gaze and nodded. “Yes, ma. But how it was almost about to lead to us having sex was what I don’t understand.”

I shook my head. “Hadassah, the bible says in 1 corinthians 6:18. It is boldly written there to flee fornication because if you engage in it, you sin against your own body!” I paused to be sure that she was listening then I continued.

“God designed sex for marriage and when you decide to do it before marriage, you get yourself burned! And when you break the hedge the serpent will bite! Hadassah even if it wasn’t written in the Bible that you shouldn’t have a boyfriend, I want you to understand something.

When Adam was placed in a beautiful garden, he had every fruit at his disposal but he was warned to stay away from the tree of evil right?”

She nodded and rubbed her face.

“He stayed away from it. But there was something that Adam had and it was called the fellowship with God.

He had a relationship just like you and me, he had a relationship with God not just as his father, but as a friend. But guess what, Eve his wife came into his life.

But Eve, who was his friend and wife, lent her attention more to the devil even though she was always in Eden with Adam.

One would have expected that she would learn obedience from Adam right? But no! she got an advice that looked good from the d’vil, she informed her husband Adam about it, they violated God’s rule, and they lost their inheritance, and they lost God’s presence.

So can you see that this thing called sex is a battle to truncate your destiny? Your boyfriend will lead you into having sx one day either you like it or not.

Kssing, touching, they are all acts that you into f©rnication, and those acts are wrong because you both aren’t married so that is stealing!”

She sighed.

“Sx is sacred Hadassah. Do you think it is just a 5 minutes do and getaway? No! it is a 5 minutes do and forever get entangled thing! During sx, the bIood and a host of other things are being exchanged and that is a sign of the covenant.”

“How is it a sign of covenant mummy?” confusion laced her eyes.

My heartbeat doubled. Hope she hasn’t done it yet? “ordinarily when a patient in the hospital has a shortage of bIood and needs bIood, they get another who can donate to the person right? Now when this bIood is given to the patient, depending on the kind of illness, she becomes well and we won’t be able to differentiate from the patient’s bIood and the real donor’s bIood why?”

“Because their blood has mixed.”

“Good! Since their bIood has mixed that shows that it cannot be separated anymore! This is what happens during sx! You become one with that person spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. Spiritually you begin to share in all his spiritual benefits and problems because you are now one.

A part of him is now in you and vice versa. If you observe, those who have sx with their partners psychologically find it difficult to leave their partners no matter how bad they are.

This is because there is now an emotional attachment that will cause them heartbreak when they eventually leave and they might not be able to recover from such heartbreaks. Sx is sacred Hadassah. And what God sees as marriage is when two people have sx.

This is because sx was designed for those who are married and so it becomes a wrong equation when you have it before marriage.”

“Okay mummy I never knew about this thanks for pointing it out. but what do I do? I love him. I can barely think or sleep without thinking of him mum.” She lamented.

My hands were curling into a fist but then I remembered again to tread with caution. “You think you are in love with Titus?” I laughed.

“You are not in love with him. your love for him and his love for you is selfish. Your love for him is based on your emotions. Maybe he has been getting you gifts? Showing you care?”

“Yes, mummy. He has been getting me chocolates, buying me data for my phone.” She said.

I scoffed. “But I buy you all those things why couldn’t you have asked me for them if you needed them?”

“I know mum. It’s just that, Kate says when a boy gets you a gift, it means that you are pretty and he wants to date you.”

I gritted my teeth. I would surely report Kate to her parents. “Look. When a boy buys you chocolates and any other pretty things it means he wants your body.

He doesn’t want you because you are pretty! Get that into your head. Titus kept giving you gifts that was why you taught he loved you because you were pretty, meanwhile he loved you selfishly.

That is called selfish love! He wants something of value from you! Which is sx! That was why he came presenting you with chocolates and money for mobile data.

And you loved him back because he was showering you with gifts. What if he hadn’t showered you with gifts would you have loved him?”

She smiled. “Mummy, what then is love if Titus’s love was selfish?”

“According to 1 corinthians 13, love has different definitions. But I will tell you of one. Love is not selfish. Have you ever thought of how God would send his only son to come and die for a very rebellious set of people?

People who do not even love him yet, God loved us enough to release and send his son to die on the cross of Calvary for our sins.

So that we can have a relationship and a right standing with God. It is just like the money you have on you is fifty naira and that is the last money on you.

You see a friend who is badly in need of lunch, and may die if you don’t give it to her. so you gave her that money even though you needed the money.”

She sighed. “That is sacrifice.”

“Good! True love is sacrificial Hadassah. It doesn’t wait for you to give first. If Titus really loved you, he wouldn’t be asking you out because you both are about to wake up something that would burn and kill you both. And that is lust.”

I pointed towards the room. “I got you a beautiful white dress today. You should bring it out let’s see. It’s on the bed.” I grinned.

“But you aren’t even done scolding me yet. You are acting weird are you sure this is you?”

“No sweetheart, this is the Holy Spirit in me. Go and get it.” I smiled.

She hugged me and rose to her feet. “I love this new you. Thank you Holy Spirit for staying in my mum.” She gave me a thumbs up and raced into my room, while I went into the kitchen to bring a cup of oil and a pair of scissors.

She came back holding the dress in her hand and gushing about her beautiful it is.

“how much did you get it?”

“it’s pretty expensive. But the Holy Spirit wanted me to buy it for you.”

“Thank you Holy Spirit. I love you!” she giggled.

“Here, have these scissors. Cut the gown into shreds!” I handed her the scissors, and she gaped at me stunned as though I had gone berserk.

“Mummy? This dress is expensive and I love it! You can’t do this to me.” Her voice shook.

“Do it, my angel, after all, I can get you another one.” I smiled and patted her.

She began to cut the dress, she sliced off the pearled arm, and left some holes at the nape region, she began to cut the lower parts into shreds too until I halted her. then I handed her a cup of red oil.

“pour the red oil my darling over the gown. Just you can always get a new one.”

She nodded and followed my instruction. She finished pouring the red oil on the gown with the red stain, running through the cotton gown and dripping on the black tiles.

“What does this mean mummy?”

“Well, this gown represents your destiny, your glory, and you as a whole. The red oil and scissors represent the tools of destruction and with your hand, you were destroying the cloth by yourself.

I was the voice urging you to go on like Kate who was urging you to go on and have a boyfriend.

Look my darling. There will be many voices like Kate both now and in the future but you need to be able to hear God’s voice so that your perfect future and destiny will not be ruined by Kate’s nasty advice.

So my dear Hadassah, do you still want to keep ruining your life? Or you would like to cut away from the wicked voice that wants you to ruin your life so that you can wear your future perfectly?”

Tears clouded her almond shaped eyes. They started to slide down her puffy cheeks by the time I rose to leave to my room. my work was done.

But by the time I go into the room, I realized that if my voice is not heard in the life of my daughter, another voice would ruin her, and I would be blamed for it. So I got on my knees and began to pray.

“O God, let my voice and instructions be heard by daughter as from today. I reject every evil voice or evil advice from evil friends for my daughter, I declare today that my daughter shall listen only to your voice through me in the name of Jesus Christ. And I pray that you guard her in this teen season, help my daughter to know you.

And I begin to erase every satanic pattern in my life that wants to manifest in the life of my child in the name of Jesus Christ…” I was still praying but I paused abruptly when I heard,

‘Begin the weekly prayer meeting with teen moms and don’t tell your pastor’s wife about it.’

I froze. Maybe I didn’t hear well.

THE CHAT ROOM SEASON 2 : PART 1 – THE END

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