I have been married for 14 years.’We’ have 3 kids, all boys, but none of them belongs to me. I know this for a fact. But my wife does not know that I know. Let me explain.

5 years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Kosoa to Madina our car skidded off the road. I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died.

I spent a 11 months at the hospital and that left with a condition that says I can’t have children.

I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.

My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to young women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners. But she has had 3 children by another man or men I don’t know.

I want to confront her but I am confused as how to go about the situation. I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my home. My wife does not know that I know.

In summary, I became a Pastor in a local church in my community 5 years later and met my wife in the process. I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me. 6 years into our marriage, my wife got pregnant and had ‘our’ first child.

To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA test and it was clear I wasn’t the father. I repeated the test for all the 3 chidren and they are all not mine. I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.